"Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body." (Elizabeth Stone)

Thursday, September 27, 2012

"The System"

Wow!  This month has been NUTS!  I started by taking one night to work at a studio, and a couple students on the side.  I ended up having so many students that the studio let me off the hook (I'm forever indebted to them), and I am now teaching TWENTY students piano and theory.  This took some MAJOR re-adjusting of my life.  I have never been so busy.

I would love to just summarize my week:

Monday:
am - home schooling with kids
pm - 4 piano students, Family Home Evening

Tuesday:
am - home schooling with kids
pm - violin lessons, 2 piano students, cello class, cello lessons, 1 theory class, 1 piano student

Wednesday:
am - home schooling with kids
pm - 7 piano students, activity days for the older girls and a theory class

Thursday:
am - home schooling with kids
pm - 3 piano students, kids skipping class and (hopefully) institute

Friday:
am - Story of the World group (every other week)
pm - swimming lessons, date night

Now, if my kids didn't get focused in the morning, I found myself in a hard place because, as you can see, I just didn't have much wiggle room with scheduling and I couldn't drive them to finish up their stuff while juggling this crazy schedule.  Thus, "The System" was implemented.

The System is quite simple really.  I printed out a week schedule for them.  I wrote on each day what they were to accomplish.  I laminated them, so that they can mark off what they got done with a white-board marker as they accomplish the said task. 


 A close up of a typical day.  The time really isn't relative, it's just how the sheet came.

At the end of the day, if all of their tasks have been completed, they get to put a sticker on the monkey chart.  If they have a perfect week, they get two bonus stickers.  When they finish each row, they get to choose a prize (a date with mommy or daddy somewhere).




So simple, yet it WORKS!  The kids were so focused today, and I was able to brush it off if they weren't.  I would merely remind them, "okay, you just won't get my help or maybe even won't get your sticker".  I didn't have to get upset or frustrated or anything.  Miracles happen.... I just hope they continue...

1 comment:

Alanna said...

Wow you're busy! I guess that's why you don't call me anymore... sniff, sniff. JK. Not complaining... or I'd be a hypocrite... :D Good luck with keeping up the craziness!