"Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body." (Elizabeth Stone)

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

The Law! (written in 2011)

Well, Jarett has been a "real deal" lawyer for just over a month now and already I have had two "you-know-you-are-married-to-a-lawyer" moments.  Thought I'd share:

The first was when Kaia was going to the zoo for a field trip.  We could pay the $8 for the bus and admission OR we could show a copy of her zoo pass (which we had).  So, I asked Jarett if he'd photocopy Kaia's zoo pass so that I could hand it in to her teacher.  He runs into the office and it had been photocopied.... along with being notarized with a sworn statement that "This is a true likeness of the Zoo Pass of Kaia Cahoon's" complete with Jarett's seal and signature.  Excited about being a notary much?

The other one was when we got a new car (transmission in the Sienna was shot).  I needed to switch the plates and register them in his name.  I called ahead to ask what I needed and found out that I just needed Jarett's signature saying that I was allowed to register this car in his name with the VIN on it.  Instead I got a whole letter, complete with the seal from a notary saying swearing this affadavit to be made in a sound mind etc.

Good grief!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

July - in a nut shell...

We were nuts about July because:

We're nuts about Canada Day!
 
 We're nuts about firetrucks...
 especially Jaymeson!

We're nuts about fishing...

We're nuts about blowing bubbles...

We're nuts about "Sacy" (Macy) as Jaymeson calls her.

We're nuts about Kienna (and Birthdays too)

 Kienna's also kinda nuts with how many teeth she's lost (I think we're up to about 10 now)

We're nuts about our new nephew/cousin Thaddeus (congrats Sachie and Josh)

Some of us are just nuts...

We're nutty picture takers... and I'm nuts about these kids.

 We have a nutty amount of Grandkids (on the Cahoon side) that we spent a whole week with.



We're so nutty that we get quite wiped out...

 Jaymeson is nuts about fishing - in the garage.  He even made his own recliner to fully enjoy it.

We're nuts about Lake Louise and our family we got to share it with...

Overall we're running around like we're all nuts... but we're sure enjoying the time.  So far August is getting even more nutty.  I've even made the decision to Home School.  We're excited to see what August will bring and really live it up!!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

A Quick Thought

I know that most people think that I'm not capable of a "quick" thought - but here's my best attempt... I'm not saying that I'm going to succeed.


I went to an extended "Cahoon Family Reunion" this weekend.  My Father-in-law's Mother and all her descendents that could make it were there.  She had ELEVEN children - can you imagine?  She also had many of the cousins over quite a bit.  Now, all of her children have turned out to be quite successful, good people.   So, I took the opportunity this weekend to ask her "What advice would you give young mothers?"  Her answer was two words, "Don't Yell".  I asked if her and her husband ever yelled and she almost gasped at the question.  "Absolutely not.  We never talked like that."

At Lake Louise with Mullens
Now, I'm not saying that I'm a yelling kind of girl that just screams at anyone in her path, but I have taken this advice to heart.  I really think that, at times, I can be quite guilty of having a sharp tone, and become impatient much too quickly for these sweet little kids.  I love them to pieces.... why should they be the recipients of my weaker moments?  Shouldn't I be the BEST woman I can be to those I have been given to take care of?  I mean, after all:

"The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity."
-Margaret D. Nadauld



So this is now my goal.  I really want to be that rare kind of woman.  I'm sure that I will have a sharp tongue from time to time, but I hope that I can hold it faster.  I love this quote from President Hinckley too:

 "There is a sad tendency in our world today for persons to cut one another down. Did you ever realize that it does not take very much in the way of brainpower to make remarks that may wound another? Try the opposite of that. Try handing out compliments."
Gordon B Hinckley

At Ashley Lake with the Cahoons
 I hope that each day we can all try to be as kind as possible to those we love.  Say kind words instead of hurtful sarcastic remarks.  I want to take that step and become that little bit better.  Care to join in on the challenge?