"Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body." (Elizabeth Stone)

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Favorite Picture....

I was browsing through a book at Costco and a picture captured my eye. I actually began to cry right in the book aisle. It was SO touching. I have always been SO touched by the sacrifice of soldiers, especially ones leaving wife and children behind. What a gripping moment to have a photograph capture. Apparently it's a famous picture, but it was my first time seeing it and I will NEVER forget it.

The Alphabet

Saryn has been learning the alphabet and really doesn't care. She thinks its funny to mix them up and she has no desire to do it right. So, I'm not pushing her.

Today the one that made me laugh was "U" which she calls Dub. Get it?? She knows it's short for "W".....but not the 'you' part, the 'dub' part....

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Celebrity Collage by MyHeritage

I must confess, besides George Clooney and Alec Baldwin, I like the results from this one a lot better than my picture in March 2007.... Go back on the blog and compare if you want to see the good ones I got that time!


MyHeritage: Family tree - Genealogy - Celebrity - Collage - Morph

Monday, December 14, 2009

Oh, Kaia!!

I have never met a more brilliant, sweet, beautiful, kind and helpful girl all rolled into one than my little Kaia. I really feel like I don't get to write about her as often as I'd like because she's gone for so much of the day now. Let me assure you though, that she is doing VERY well.

She is SUCH a great older sister, especially to her brother, these days. There have been so many times that she has sat on the floor and played cars or with the Little People Nativity with him.
One time she just looked like a little mom when she had set up the nativity on the kitchen table and was holding him and making him laugh. It was such an endearing moment to me. She really is SUCH a tender little girl.

She is in violin lessons and is working really hard to push herself. We have her for many reasons and all of them are paying off. It keeps her mind focused on something long-term. It's teaching her patience. It is really developing her ear musically and it is an outlet for overactive mind! We have really enjoyed her teacher, Rod Olstad, this year. He plays the fiddle in a country band and really is quite talented. He's much more child oriented than our last teacher who just didn't seem to be able to relate to children. Kaia tells almost everyone she meets that she plays the violin and she'll show it to anyone who comes over.

We recently had report cards. If anyone really knows Kaia, her report card would not surprise them. I was laughing while reading it because it is VERY obvious that her teacher knows her well. At the parent/teacher interview, I was told (as a summary).

"Academically, Kaia is an outstanding student. She is reading at a Grade 5-6 level in English (which she has not yet studied in school) and will most likely be caught up to that level in French before Grade 2. She is able to do all math problems given to her (many of which are at a much higher grade level). She understands concepts that most grade 3-4's are having a hard time understanding. When her French Comprehension matches her English, I would enroll her in some extracurricular activities to keep her mind busy so that she doesn't get bored. This child is an exceptionally bright child!
"However, socially Kaia tends to think she is the boss. It is quite often that her classmates ask me, 'Mme Henry, is this what we are supposed to be doing? Kaia said it was, so we just thought we'd make sure'. Kaia, however, is making HUGE strides in trying to be more patient with her classmates when they aren't as exact in following the rules as she thinks they should be.
"One thing that I really love about Kaia is how she really cares for those who she loves. She really has taken her friend under her wing to help her understand how to read and how to understand the concepts being taught. She even stays in at recess to help her learn and guide her. It has been really touching to see how much she cares and how much she wants to help."

I have never felt so happy as to know that Kaia's teacher is REALLY watching her and REALLY knows her. It was a wonderful event.

Because I found her report card so humorous, I want to share it with you. In every subject, she scored an "Effort Excellent" grade. It was the comments that were priceless.

Personal Development and Skills:
Kaia consistently puts forth her best effort. She enjoys sharing her thoughts and observations. Kaia is eager to answer questions. She speaks in a clear voice that can be heard by all of her classmates. The work in Kaia's duo-tangs is of a very high quality. Her printing is very neat and her drawings are detailed. Kaia is very conscientious about completing assignments. Her work space is always well organized. Kaia is able to work quietly and independently. She is learning to work more cooperatively with her classmates.

French Language Arts:
Curricular focus: Comprehension of oral French; production of oral French; phonics; sight vocabulary; and reading. Kaia successfully uses an excellent base of sight words and an excellent knowledge of phonics (consonant sounds, vowel sounds, and consonant-vowel combinations) to read. Kaia has independently read many short books and demonstrated a very good understanding of their contents. She has a very good understanding of spoken French. She is consistently able to respond to verbal direction, and questioning. Kaia is encouraged to use her existing vocabulaty to speak more French in class. Kaia meets the grade one home reading expectation. Bravo!

Mathematics:
Curricular focus: Recognition and application of whole numbers 0-20. Kaia is able to identify numerals to 20 when represented symbolically. She is able to read number words to 10. She is consistently able to represent a given number up to 20 using manipulatives, including base ten materials. Kaia demonstrates a very good ability to build sets that have more than. fewer than or as many as a given set. She can use French vocabulary to describe sets using comparative words such as plus que - more than, and mois que - less than. Kaia will continue to work to improve her ability to briefly look at an arrangement of objects and identify how many there are without counting.

Science:
Curricular focus: Creating colours and autumn. Kaia is able to name the primary colours - rouge, bleu and jaune, and to identify which are used to create the secondary colours - orange, vert, violet. Using French vocabulary, Kaia is able to compare and contrast colours as lighter htan and darker than. She understands that diluting paint with water makes it thinner and more transparent. Kaia understands that light can be separated into the colours of the rainbow. Kaia demonstrates a good understanding of how aniumals prepare for winter. She is beginning to use French vocabulary to explain the concepts of animals gathering nuts, migration and hivernation.

Social Studies:
Curricular focus: Relations and belonging. Kaia has an excellent understanding of her belonging, as an important member of her family, as a student at Ecole Brander Gardens and as a violin student. Kaia has an excellent understanding of the concept of community. She is able to use French vocabulary to name people, places and things found in communities. Kaia's pride in her work is evidenced by the details in her assignmnets. Kaia is excited to volunteer answers in class.

Physical Education:
Curricular focus: Movement activites and cooperative games. Kaia demonstrates very good body and space awareness when performing space awareness games. She demonstrates good skills when running and dodging. Kaia plays cooperatively and by the rules. Her continuous participation throughout the 30 class, indicates a satisfactory level of fitness.

Health:
Curricular focus: Self-awareness and acceptance; the golden rule; courtesy. Kaia consistently demonstrates a willingness to follow classroom and school rules. She always uses her manners - merci and s'il vous plait. Kaia is demonstrating greater patience with her classmates and peers. She always volunteers to help with classroom chores.

Art:
Curricular focus: Use of art tools and materials; exploring line. Kaia consistently demonstrates excellent drawing, colouring and cutting skills when creating art. She understands the aesthetic quality of art. Kaia has a very good understanding of the use of different kinds of lines (diagonal, vertical, horizontal) in art.

Music:
This term in music Kaia is outstanding at distinguishing between her own speaking and singing voice while responding to tone matching and echo games. She is exceptional at responding to the beat through actions and simple body percussion. Kaia can accurately identify rhythmic patterns including quarter notes (ta), eighth notes (ti-ti) and rests. She is learning the correct care, function and use of pitched and unpitched percussion instruments such as thuthm sticks, egg shakers, xylophones, metallophones, glockenspiels, and drums.

I apologize for the length of the report card, but I needed to have it in soft form too. My favorite moments are in "Personal Development and Skills", "Social Studies" (the violin comment and answering in class), and "Health" (patience).

Kaia reads daily when bored or stressed and writes books complete with pictures whenever possible. She recently took one of her books into her class to read for them and I am really proud of her for the books she has written.

She loves to read the scriptures too and sleeps with a picture of the Saviour every night. She actually gave our FHE lesson tonight and it was SO fun to hear. She really is such a bright girl and has such a strong testimony already that I find it inspiring. I am so proud of my angel girl. She makes me VERY happy so often and I love her SO much.

For FHE, I asked Kaia if she'd like to prepare a lesson. I only said she needs to make it about the gospel and maybe we should talk about Christmas a little bit because it's only a week and a half away. She went off to her room and looked through the scriptures and came up with this 14 minute lesson. I hadn't ever heard it before and all the coaching I gave her is the stuff in the video. I know this video is long, but it's true to Kaia's personality......detailed! Hope you enjoy!

Cahoon Art!

We LOVE Sundays, but one of my favorite things is the "art" that they bring home from church.

Kienna's last week had me in stitches:

Kaia's this week:


Saryn's additions to Kaia's this week:


Saryn's rainbow on the back of Kaia's art this week:


Evidence of Saryn's new love of drawing rainbows on my couch (I'm fairly certain that there's a path leading up to the rainbow):


In fact Saryn just LOVES rainbows. Today the sun was hitting the peep hole at the right angle and was making a rainbow on the door. It does this every day, but she was particularly excited about it today. She runs upstairs and says,
"Mom, come now!! There's a rainbow on the door!!"
"Okay, just a second...."
"No, (choking up) it might leave. You'd miss it!! (fighting back tears) You have to come RIGHT NOW!!"

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Any visitors??

Today, Edmonton was
THE COLDEST PLACE IN NORTH AMERICA!

and the
SECOND COLDEST PLACE
in the WORLD!!
(second only to
Dzalinda, Siberia)

It was -46.1C and with the windchill factor it was -58.4C.

Anyone wanna come and visit?

My Little Phantom

She's here.....inside my kitchen.

Saryn came into the living room with this piece of bread over her face and said "Hey Look! I'm the Phantom of the Opera!!" I've never been prouder...

While in my kitchen, my little phantom helps me make cookies! Today she read my my recipe. She uses her index finger to guide her as she 'reads':

"Next is the flour, lots of flour. You ARE flour, you NEED flour."

"Now you need more flour..."


Earlier, the phantom was snuggling with me. Giving me about 100 hugs a minute.

"Because you love me" *hug*
"Because I love you" *hug*
"Because we're hugging" *hug*
"Because I'm silly" *hug*
"Because......" *hug*

The phantom really isn't that scary.
In fact she might be haunting my funny bone these days...

Thursday, December 10, 2009

We Love Daddy

Today I woke up for the third time around 7 to Saryn crying. Usually this causes me to groan, roll my eyes and roll over trying to go back to sleep, because it's whining and asking for something or she's just tired and cranky, but this cry had a really sincerely sad sound to it. It nearly broke my heart to hear her so sad.

"Saryn, why are you so sad?"
"Because Daddy's gone..."
"Oh, do you miss Daddy?"
"Yeah, SO much..."

I know this past month of studying for finals has been hard on me. I've missed Jarett desperately and have a whole new sympathy for single mothers, but I realized this morning how hard it has been on the kids too. They go for days without seeing Jarett because he's gone by 7 every morning and doesn't get home until well after 10 most nights. In fact, I have started waking up earlier and staying up later just so I can get a little bit of Jarett time in. Now my kids are waking up in the night just to give him a hug. They sure love their Daddy! He's been sorely missed around here. Sigh, one more week...

PS - Kienna was caught with another water bottle in hand today. I told her that if I caught her with ONE more water bottle she was going to be in BIG trouble! Consoling me, she told me I didn't have to worry about that because there weren't any left! Why didn't THAT help me feel happier?

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Thirsty??

Kaia is sick. It's very rare that she EVER gets sick and even more rare that she doesn't want to go to school. So she's home sick with a cold... I had that cold last week and so I'm really sensitive to how she is feeling. This in mind, I was snuggling with her and comforting her while Jaymeson is asleep and left Kienna and Saryn to play in the basement for about 10 minutes. I told Kaia I'd be right back and went down to check on them quickly. As I walked through the kitchen I hear water splashing. The kids laugh and start walking up the stairs to see me standing at the top. Here is what I see.....(I took this picture later)

Please note the water on Kienna's shirt. This is NOTHING compared to the water drowning her pants! Then I continued downstairs to see a puddle on the floor with about 4 books. Of ALL the places in my house to have water on the floor, this is the worst. We have a HUGE rug in the basement and therefore, it's the only place in our house with carpet. Cleaning up a puddle on linoleum isn't that big of a deal.....carpet is a whole other story. How big of a puddle you ask? Well, you do the math....


The orange juice was consumed (luckily), but all the water contributed to the puddle on the carpet. Hope no one was thirsty and needed the water.

"Kienna! Why did you do that?"
"Because I LIKE playing with water!"
"But don't you realize how sad that makes Mommy?"
"Yeah...."
"So why do you do it? Do you like it so much that no matter what toys it ruins, no matter how much work it takes to fix, no matter how sad it will make me, it's worth it?"
"Yes!"

There's no doubt. That girl LOVES water..... Any suggestions on how to break the addiction?

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

My Laughs for the Day

In prayer:
Saryn: Thank you that Mommy got married in the temple and thank you that she married Daddy...

Kienna: Thank you that Mommy is such a good cook, please help her keep getting better and better. (This has become a frequent in her prayers at meals AND bedtime).

Kienna: 'O' is a cool letter.
Mom: Why?
Kienna: Because no matter which way you turn it, it's still an 'O'


Kienna: I was crying at school today...
Mom: Why, hon?!?
Kienna: Because someone moved into the morning Kindergarten
Mom: Who?
Kienna: Nicholas...
Mom: Wait, isn't Nicholas the boy you didn't like?
Kienna: Well, yeah, but I still liked him even though he was really mean...


Mom: Why do you guys make such a big mess?!?
Saryn: Because, I just like to make things....

I needed Saryn's laugh today because it was shortly after I discovered that she had unraveled Kaia's knitting that she's been working so hard on, took one of the needles and poked a hole into the seat of our stationary bike and the other one was in our water cooler bottle. Sometimes humor can save lives...

Yesterday, for example, I needed a good laugh after my van wouldn't start until we had missed Kaia's hearing screening, Kienna's cello lesson and school. Luckily a friend of mine picked the girls up and took them to the afternoon, and then came over and boosted my car so that I could take Jarett a key to his locker (he had locked his keys in his locker). The van was SO cold that I had to stop and re-scrape the windows at every stop light. Thankfully, my cousin was over so I didn't have to bring my kids with me. It was C-O-L-D!!!

Anyway, so yesterday I needed a laugh. I put on my favorite comedy these days, Brian Regan: I Walked on the Moon!, (this is only the very end) had popcorn and enjoyed a good hour with my cousin! I highly recommend this for stress therapy. It was ALL that I needed.... :)

On the other hand, Saryn just came and patted my stomach and looked at me all excited,

"Mom, I think you have a baby girl in there...."

I don't know what amount of humour is needed to get her out of trouble this time...

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Oh, the Madness....

Well, as days go, I was busy and practicing violin with Kaia while finishing up the banana muffins and balancing Jaymeson while guiding Kaia's bow. Kienna was helping Saryn put toothpicks in every single one of the muffins that were cooling (because, apparently, this is necessary) and all was well.
I was so relaxed that I even took a picture of how silly they were to decorate the muffins...
Once that was done, Kienna moved on to cutting out Christmas tags and Saryn and Jaymeson moved to the piano. I was talking to Kaia and as she looked around, her face changed. It was NOT a good change and she panicked. "Saryn, what are you doing???" I looked to my darling little girls, that were in plain view, and realized that Saryn was styling Kienna's hair, but not just playing, CUTTING! Yes, the dreaded day has come. Kienna had cut Saryn's hair! She moved from cutting Christmas tags, to cutting hair. Then it was Saryn's turn with the scissors. Kienna had sense enough to leave some length and only cut once.....Saryn is a completely different story. Luckily there is still length, but there are MANY more cuts. I was LIVID! So livid that I sat them on the steps while I ran for the camera.

I found a sample of the hair (about 4 inches long of golden locks)

Then took pictures of their hair while they were on the steps.

We talked about the consequences of this action and how we were going to have to go to Sister Anderson's house for an emergency hair cut. Oh, thank heaven for hair dressing friends that live only a small field away! I told them that Sister Anderson shaves heads of little girls who cut their own hair. She MIGHT be in a good mood today, but they better hope so! So as we're gathering up to head over, I notice that Kaia is crying. I ask her what is wrong to find out that my sweet little girl is SO sad for her sisters that she is sobbing because she is worried that they will never have hair again. Poor thing didn't know that shaving heads is not a permanent thing. This calmed me down enough to assure her that Sister Anderson was in a great mood this day and that everything would be fine. The only thing that could make this worse, was the 2 feet of snow that fell the previous 24 hours. I had to shovel my way out of my yard after bundling up 4 children for the hike through the field.


Luckily, hair dressing friends can be miracle workers... all is well again and I still have my sanity.


Just a little sad that Kienna had to chop off her locks 2 weeks before she is a flower girl. She looks cute in a bob cut, but she had some gorgeous hair going on before. I was finally starting to do the pig tails and pony tails and braids and being curled....and they were working! Sigh, only another 5 years and I'll be able to do it again.... until then, I'll have to look back at these pictures and remember this day.....

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Presents and Surprises are ALWAYS good...

This weekend was FULL of goodness. We had a bridal shower for my sister. Her two big gifts were from my sister, Alanna:

Yep, a full queen sized quilt. It's amazing! I wish you could see the intricate stitching on it, it's AMAZING!!

Then Aunty Beryl gave Hayley a cross-stitch of the Cardston Temple. It's the same thing she made for my wedding and my sister, Alanna. The poem is so awesome, I read it frequently!

Whenever Aunty Beryl and Granny come to town, you always seem to get spoiled. Some of the "little things" from this time are:

A little toque for Jaymeson and myself....
a nativity set... Granny made the figures, I sanded them and added the hemp twine.


Granny Jubber also surprised Kaia with a knitting lesson! It was SO much fun to watch that I eventually joined in and got a lesson for myself.


Hayley showed us her big gift from Troy: Isn't it gorgeous?


More wedding type presents came as the Flower Girl Dresses and Bridesmaid Dresses were tried on. Granny Jubber made some capes for them too!
some of them got fittings too!

Jaymeson also got a baby gift from a good friend. Could it be a more appropriate pattern for my little monkey?

My mom also surprised everyone by taking out the Christmas decorations. We all got to decorate together and it was SO much fun!



Jaymeson was so overwhelmed by all the nice surprises that he started to look everywhere for them:

in the laundry room:
down the stairs:In the bathroom:
but at the end of the day, if anyone looked at him, he'd run back to me and hug my legs:

Finally he found some surprises at Jack's birthday Party!!

It was a Peter Pan Party and they sure had fun....and the cake was GREAT!





Well, after a weekend with that many fun surprises, I had to get ONE not so pleasant one. As I was unpacking the day after we got home, Saryn says, "Mom, I'm down here" (you knew it had to involve Saryn, didn't you?) So, I went downstairs and she was up on a dresser eating her 3rd pudding, her 2nd juice box and couldn't get down. I was really impressed with her "cup holder". Really made me laugh. What a little monkey.....



My mechanic had also given me a "not so good" surprise this weekend. Apparently some mice had decided that our air filter was the best spot for their nest. At least he found it and not me, right?